Monday, December 26, 2011

What to Expect in Navy Boot Camp Training

!±8± What to Expect in Navy Boot Camp Training

Many young people who aspire for a career in the naval service look into navy boot camps in order to prepare them for the rigors of naval education and training. If you think that the training in boot camp will be easy, you're in for a surprise. Here are the basic Navy water qualifications:

- Cadet must be able to enter the water (feet first) at a minimum depth of five feet deep.
- After entering the water, at five feet deep, the cadet must remain afloat for five minutes.
- Cadet must also be able to swim using different kinds of swimming strokes for a minimum of 50 yards.

These qualifications tests your skills when in the water, which is an important aspect of training for Naval service.

The Navy Boot Camp training lasts for two months and is usually conducted at Great Lakes, IL. It's tough work and it's certainly no relaxing summer vacation for cadets, however the rewards that you reap can give considerable advantage when you need it for applying in the service. The Great Lakes campus is a huge training ground manned by navy personnel. The training program in navy boot camps are divided as follows:

Week 1 - During the first week, cadets are evaluated for admission, issued their uniform and given the first orientation. They are checked up by physicians to see if they can hold up to the training, they are given their haircut in order to comply with Navy regulation hairstyle. Cadets will know what is expected of them, they will be taught how to properly make their bunk beds, where their footlockers can be located, and other basic things. There will be military drills and a lot of Navy classes to get them acquainted with the field.

Week 2 - This is usually when cadets are acquainted with typical emergency situations that they may face while on a Navy vessel. They are taught how to respond to these situations and are expected to work in teams and develop a strong sense of camaraderie. During this time, cadets' bond with fellow cadet will become stronger and they will learn to work as a team to achieve their goals.

Week 3 - Physical drills will be continuous throughout the training but this is the time when the drills will become tougher and more physically demanding. There will be land and ship drills as well. Cadets will be taught the proper etiquette, rules, and code of conduct expected of them onboard a real Naval ship.

Week 4 - This marks the end of the first month of training and is usually when tests (practical and theoretical) may be conducted to test the knowledge of cadets and what they've learned so far.

Week 5 - This is usually when cadets can focus on whether they want a Naval career in the future. Recruiters will come and talk to them and give them some guidance. Essentially, just help them make the decision of whether to continue with the Naval career or pursue a different kind of career.

Week 6 - During this week, students may expect more drills and an addition of practical tests. For example, there may be mock tests like what would cadets do if the ship is on fire and how to respond to different kinds of emergencies that could happen on board the ship. There will be more written tests too, as the week wears on and training becomes more challenging.

Week 7 - Cadets may finally get a taste of their first simulated battle where cadets are divided by teams and are engaged in different kinds of battle scenarios. Here, cadets can really put the theories they learned into practice.

Week 8 - This is graduation week where family and friends are invited to share in the pride of graduating Navy boot camp training.

After this, teens can decide whether this is something they really want to do for the long term or not. If they do decide to pursue Naval training, it gives them the edge because they're already familiar and well-versed with how real Naval training can go. If not, they'll go home with valuable life lessons such as discipline, a drive for excellence, teamwork, and many others.


What to Expect in Navy Boot Camp Training

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Tuesday, December 20, 2011

18 Inch Doll Bunk Bed, Doll Bedding, & Ladder Doll Furniture for American Girl Dolls & More! White with Hand Painted Flowers

!±8± 18 Inch Doll Bunk Bed, Doll Bedding, & Ladder Doll Furniture for American Girl Dolls & More! White with Hand Painted Flowers

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White Bunk Bed with Hand Painted Flowers. Comes with 2 Pc. Bedding Set and Ladder. Made to accommodate dolls of types, styles and ages. Colorful and playful style will compliment your child's room.

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Thursday, December 15, 2011

Fits American Girl Doll Bunk Bed & Desk Combo - 18" Inch Dolls Furniture

!±8± Fits American Girl Doll Bunk Bed & Desk Combo - 18" Inch Dolls Furniture

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This is an impressive furniture addition for your 18 inch doll's bedroom that has it all! This white painted piece with a floral design has double bunk beds with 2 blankets and a pillow for each bed with a built-in ladder. Attached on the side is an adorable desk with coordinating chair. Plus, this piece has a pull out drawer for storage that could double as a trundle bed during sleep over parties.Double Bunk Bed and Desk piece measures 28" x 27.25" x 11.5". Furniture piece is CPSIA safety tested and approved, and suitable for 14-18 inch dolls (including 18 inch soft body dolls such as American Girl, Gotz, Magic Attic, etc...).

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Saturday, December 10, 2011

Inside Job - Stillwater Prison & the Day Before Yesterday (A Shannon O'Day Story)

!±8± Inside Job - Stillwater Prison & the Day Before Yesterday (A Shannon O'Day Story)

Inside Job
(Stillwater State Prison) 1961-63

Part one of two

Dana Stanley, born September 27, 1942, met Edward Morrill born August 28, 1930, while working as a teacher's aide in the Dakota County school system...

Forward: Shannon O'Day was the cause Edward Morrill had been sentence to five-years in prison for his affair with a minor, Dana Stanley, during the fall of 1958, and it was now December, 1961. He had served a little over two years, with good behavior, he was to get out in another year 1963, September, and was going up for a board hearing and hopefully be placed on parole, thus, at this point and time he had a parole hearing come September of 1962, one year from this date, and he had told his roommate, he was going to kill the person who put him in this prison when he got out, and the person he told (kidding or not), was Otis Wilde Mather's third cousin, and when his name came up, Shannon O'Day, Oscar Lewis Charleston, had written Otis, to visit him, saying it was urgent. And he did just that, and gave Otis the information of his roommate, inmate friend, and Otis, gave Oscar enough chewing tobacco to last him the year out. But now something needed to be done to stop this potential hazard in the making.

And Otis' plan was two fold. Get him a new sentence, another five or ten years, or do him in. Whichever one was favorable, under whatever circumstances prevailed, in accordance to the time period; and the less people that knew, the better off, to include Shannon O'Day himself.

The Story

Chapter One
The Meeting

"Youall do me this here favor cousin Oscar Lewis and I'll give Youall 0-dollars for you time. Ef-in that be okay with your conscious, and it dont go against your nerve," said Otis Wilde Mather at the Stillwater State Prison, in Minnesota, during his visit with his third cousin, Oscar Lewis Charleston.

They both looked at one another, and Otis pulled out two-hundred dollars, "Ef-in I takes the money the guard here, I mean, the po-lice man, he a-goin' to take it away anyhow, I wish I could buy a-whore, but there aint any here, we'all men here and we can do what women cant I reckon...so give da money to some poor sucker," he said.
"Waht!" said Otis, "Youall sure you wants to do that?"

"How you mean, wants to do that? Jest finds someone who aint got a cent and give them two-hundred dollars worth of those cent's, all right cousin?"

"We'll," said Otis, "ef-in that makes you feel a little better, how about that white girl, Dana Stanley, Morrill got her a baby, and she a-liven on her own in some shack on the levee in that there shanty town down by the Mississippi River, below the cliffs, in St. Paul?"

"Well, I'd like to see a color folk git da money, but poor white is fine I reckon. Waht do he do to her?" Asked Oscar.

"He done treated her like a whore and she waz only fifteen at dhe time, and turned sixteen, then he gits a heart to confess, and gits mad cause Shannon O'Day, he gits the Judge to put him away for five years. Oh I suppose she did her flatiron, but she as poor as a mouse with no cheese. So I'd say if anyone deserves that-there two-hundred dollars, its Dana."

A woman started screaming in the visiting area, some inmate was running around trying to open up his fly, and everyone started looking, and his wife tried to settle him down, and by the time the guards got him, settled him down he had his britches half off wanted to do whatever he could do with his wife, right there and then, and his wife's hands were over her face embarrassed, just shook her head. And a guard said loud and clear, "We got to cut visiting time short today folks-all right everybody leave please."

Otis, hushed up, as the guard pulled the man's britches back up around his butt, and zipped up his front. The guard said to the inmate,

"You'll be walking a tightrope for along time Henry!"

Otis was done talking anyhow, and when he reached the last steps to leave the prison, hearing the heavy metal doors, steel bar doors, clang, and catch the lock, and click as if death itself, burped, close behind him, he took in a deep breath, and let it out slowly. Then he unfolded the money he was about to give Oscar, and put it into a separated department in his billfold. It was that very afternoon Otis visited Dana, and gave her the money on behalf of Oscar. "Do me a favor," Otis, told her, "Write him a thank-you letter, ef'in that aint too much."

She brought a beer to her little kitchen table, and opened it for Otis, "All Right," she remarked, "just give me his full name and how to sent it to the prison, and I'll do as you ask."

Chapter Two
The Decision

Oscar had told his roommate, Edward Morrill, who slept on the top bunk bed, "Every inmate has a right to try and escape, the guards expect it. And I got life, or twenty-years in this cell, fifteen more to go if- I keep my behavior well. Then I am free, jest like that, free. But I aint got fifteen years in me left, I'm forty-eight now, I expect I be dead by then. And I reckon every guard has a right to shoot anyone who tries to leave this prison without the proper paperwork. I need your help, cuz my fate is doom, I aint goin' to run out of her, Im goin' to walk."

Morrill didn't know of course he was being set up, and that he should have known all along he was being set up, because he didn't need to help anyone, he was not getting a promissory note for anything but trouble, but he said, "What is it you're asking me to do?" So he even asked before he had to, what Oscar wanted him to do. Oscar had made sure he owed him a favor, a few black friends were going to blackjack him, threatened to slash his head with whatever they had if they couldn't find a blackjack, and rape him. And Oscar put a scare into those fellows, and Edward was grateful. On the other had, Edward had wished he didn't even know as much already as he did. In fact, if it was left to him, he would have likened to have been locked up in solitary until Oscar was over his escape theory.

"Don't brag; just tell me how you expect to do it? I guess I'm under a small bond to you, I want to do what I got to do and wash my hands of you." Morrill asked, and remarked.

"You don't need to worry any," Oscar said.

"What?" he said. "Why would you say that?"

"I said you don't need to worry, nobody got anything against you and all I want you to do is go into the laundry room, pick up a bag of laundry, from Marcus, my friend in there, and bring it to me in the men's room, during visiting time Saturday, its got women's cloths in it, and my sister is going to visit me, and I'll dress up like her, and she'll say she lost her ID, and I'll walk out of the place dressed like a female before her."

"Yes," he said, "but you're going to be one ugly female." And they both laughed.

Chapter Three
Two Days Later

The Warden called Edward Morrill to his office. "Sit on down," he told him, "listen up" he said, clearing his throat, and then stated (his voice sotto-voce, and curious): "What in the heck did you do it for? We all thought you were of sound mind. That's what your records say anyway, and that's what you told us."

"That's right," Edward said.

"Didn't you know it wouldn't work?" the Warden asked.

Edward got up, wanting to leave, and the Warden said, "Wait, didn't you realize you'd never get away with it?"

"Oscar told me he wanted to escape, but when I brought the bag of cloths into the bathroom, and came out, he was gone, and his sister was gone, and I was standing there by my lonesome." The Warden looked at him; he looked thin and frail.

"Oscar doesn't have a sister, he ought not to have fooled you but he hasn't anything to lose, and when I talked to him, he denied he had anything to do with the women's clothing in that bag, the guard saw you bring it into the bathroom. You would have got out in just another year, and I warned you to keep your nose clean, not to help three-time losers."

"He never had to do that to me," said Edward.

"Well he did it, and you're going to get another five-years added onto your original sentence, so forget about getting out early, you've got until 1968. That's right Edward Morrill, the champion of champion dummies. And I've given you a private cell all to yourself. Some folks just never learn."

"I thought I only had one enemy, Shannon O'Day, I guess I now got two," said Edward.

Chapter Four
Sotto-voce

He, Edward Morrill was different now, as if his youth was going to be warn out before he got out of prison, over a statement he had forgot he even made. Immolated youth and hope had set into Dana Stanley likewise. The leather-toughness that he once had was now physical exhaustion; he had robbed the innocence of a young girl, and set a burning fire to his youthful years. Years would pass; those very same years that he was suppose to have been free. Had Edward had a better lawyer, he might have done better, he had forgot, secrets are no longer secrets once told. That was now. And now he belonged to the State of Minnesota, the Government.

At first he was embarrassed, at what he did, but held some pride, respect for himself, because he hadn't gotten caught at it, and had willingly brought his crime to the attention of the authorities, but he had forgiven himself, but now it had become a kind of reflection of someone's amusement: someone beyond those steel bars, and his guilt, along with that other person's unforgiving guilt he wanted to plant into him, who was trying to make his guilt into shame, someone beyond Oscar to have tricked him, now he felt foolish, and that old guilt came back and had turned into deep shame, hurt and anger.

And now knowing Edward was in for a number of years, more years, Dana didn't feel like waiting, and she didn't want to learn how to wait any longer, waiting and listening, and learning what was going on in the prison, and her child getting older. And so she had gone back to her people, her home with her mother and father, and started dating a gentlemen fellow from Stillwater Township, and she went back to Sunday school. And when Edward would get out in 1968, Shannon O'Day, who was old now, would be dead then, he died in 1967. He, Edward had learned the hard way, justice wasn't for every man and woman alive, it was for the best and richest, and champions of the world. The best the others could do was hope for a chance at it, but not to expect it. America was no different when it came to money, if a man wanted to blot you out, it was a matter of 'how much.' Somehow Edward knew, but didn't say: he talked too much.

5-29/30-2009
No: 2005

Upon the suicide death of Mr. Edward Morrill, in 1966, on the prison wall in his cell, next to his bed, he wrote the following poem:

The Mind's Prison Cell
By Edward Morrill

In my prison cell
An evil knight was born
In a hate sea-roaming
This devil's noble
Unsheathed his sword,
For my sire of old
Once a star
In the heavens...!

And said I, I to my sire
Of old, trapped on land
Slave to the whims
Of this cell in prison...!
Life slowly suffocating
I'll give my soul
To become a selkie
To have power of men
Or a merman or sea spirit
Of various forms, thus...

I shall cast off my skins
And come ashore
As a seal, to a selkie
And with time
This valiant-hearted,
Child of longing,
Chosen of an imp
Shall kill the human
That put me forth
Into this lasting prison,
And return with my soul
For his keeping!

5-30-2009; No: 2614

The Day before Yesterday
((A Shannon O'Day Story) (1916/1966))

Part Two of Two

Chapter Five
Skeptical Shooter

(In a Guesthouse, France, 1916) "What?" The waitress said in German.

"I said where the French compound is? It's getting late."

It was near twilight, he was looking for his battalion, had left The Village of Douaumont, left it the day before yesterday, the battle of Verdun was over, a three-hundred day battle, and he was left to die, but he didn't die, and as he had asked, and the waitress had said: there was some kind of ammo dump at the edge of the woods, several miles away, and so he went in that direction she had pointed out, stepped over trenches, and a few dead bodies still in them, dead men's faces eaten by rats, others with other deformities, he walked by a corn storage shed (reminded him of Minnesota), and then saw a military compound surrounded with barbwire. He headed to the main gate, "Halt," a French Sergeant commanded. A shooter on the tower looking down with a pointed rifle barrow,

"Let's see your ID soldier?" he said.

Shannon O'Day pulled it out of his back pocket, and looked strangely at the man.

"Why you staring at me soldier?" asked the sergeant.

"No reason," he said, but was staring because the sergeant's nose didn't have bone in it, and when you looked at him, you could see right up his nostrils, like a pig.

"Your battalion, or company isn't here, they went onto Paris for leave." Said the sergeant; then he pulled his revolver out, and ordered him against the guard shack's wall, "You look like a spy?" he questioned Shannon, in French.

"Do I talk like one?" asked Shannon, "I'm an American in the French Army, and was wounded and lost, and now I'm healed and still lost. I need a drink of water-please."

"No," said the sergeant. "Just who and what are you doing here, coming out of nowhere? Maybe you're a deserter, not lost but simply done hiding since the battle is now over and want to go home like a hero?"

"About three weeks, I've been gone three weeks, maybe two, I lost count."

"Can I be of any help Sergeant?" asked an officer as he walked by.

"No sir," said the sergeant, "I've got it under control."

"Just so you don't shoot one of our own," he uttered.

Then the sergeant shoved Shannon savagely out onto the thin platform, away from the wall, "Three weeks is a long time to be out there on your own soldier?" said the sergeant, "something smells fishy here!"

The shooter was still looking, halfway aiming his rifle incase he had to bring it back up to his shoulder in a hurry.

"I'm no trader, I was wounded, and some woman in that village called Douaumont put me back together!"

"That's one big cock and bull story," said the sergeant now in English.

From behind them you could hear the incoming whisper of engines in the air, and so Shannon crouched, looked up, the planes looked like two dark long winged ducks, dropping down quickly, the sky was gray and dim, and they were heading toward the ammo dump behind the guardhouse.

"Listen," the sergeant said to Shannon, "...grabs the rifle in the guardhouse and shoot at the plane," the sergeant was too far away, and the plane was now shooting its machine guns madly all around them, and the shooter in the tower could not get a good shot, and he had a roof over his head, and hid behind the tower's wooden frame.
"The mad Germans are shooting everywhichway," said the Sergeant.

Shannon now had his rifle in hand, a soldier came running up toward the sergeant, dived to the ground, side by side, "Don't get in that soldier's way with the rifle, let him shoot," said the sergeant, "take the shot soldier," yelled the sergeant.

The plane dived close overhead, Shannon watched the sky and the lightening tracers of the machine gun, and fired one bullet-a breeze fell on the face of Shannon, with the moon rising overhead, and then you could hear a crash. The second plane emptied its load over the darkness, and missed the main stockpile of shells.

"You know corporal," said the Sergeant, "I realize you had a lot of pressure going into that shot, but next time, don't wait so long."

The stress of the day, and the day before yesterday, was too, too, mush, a certain amount of nausea befell Shannon. He had been anxious to find his battalion, his outfit, and here he found an ammo dump, with a sergeant calling him a spy, and German planes trying to shoot at him.

"Want to know my name, corporal?" asked the Sergeant.

"No, I just want a cot to sleep on."

"Just call me Wes, I'll have someone bring you to the ammo battery, and sorry I called you a spy. Looks like you had a concussion?" asked the sergeant.

"I guess I did," there was a long pause, "can I go now sergeant?"

"Private, go on and take the corporal to the ammo battery, give him a bunk and some grub."

"Yes," sergeant, said the private, "This way Corporal" said the private to Shannon.

Chapter Six
The Door

(1966) The Door

There was a knock on the door, Shannon tossed over to one side, heard a voice say, "Youall a-wake in there?" (A voice from the past.)

"I got some news fer you Shannon!"

Slowly Shannon found his feet, and pushed them over and onto the floor, then pulled him-self up to get up and out of bed

"Sounds like you Otis?"

"Yessum, it me all right, let me in."

Shannon opened the door, "Otis Wilde Mather, what the heck are you doing in town, thought you were down in Ozark?"

"Jes' thought I'd stop on by have a drink with Youall, and give you the good news, Edward Morrill, committed suicide in prison."

"I guess I'm not all that sorry about that, and perhaps not all that surprised. How did you find out?"

"My third cousin done called me up and told me. He's in fer life."

"Hum...m, sounds a bit suspicious to me, like he was keeping an eye on him for you."

"I heard you talking in your sleep, getting those damn nightmares again, or what Youall call them things-nowadays?"

"Nightmares is good enough Otis, just plain old nightmares, sit on down, I got us some good old corn whisky, if you got the time?"

"Yessum, jest like old times, that waht I like 'bout yaw Shannon, you never change."

Written 5-30-2009
No: 406


Inside Job - Stillwater Prison & the Day Before Yesterday (A Shannon O'Day Story)

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Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Cool Themes For Children's Bedrooms

!±8± Cool Themes For Children's Bedrooms

If you happen to have kids, no doubt they enjoy having their bedroom look exciting. The thing about kids is that usually they decide on one idea for kids bedroom décor and before you know it their tired of that option and want to redecorate their room again. After all, they want to keep their bedroom looking "cool."
 
Well, if you're frustrated at trying to pick out a style all the time and shelling out money on children's bedroom furniture, you need to know that it doesn't have to be that expensive. You can find some really great décor for prices that won't break the bank these days. Here's a look at some good tips and ideas to help you and your children come up with cool themes for their bedroom.
 
Deciding on a Budget
 
When choosing kids bedroom décor the first step to take is to decide on your budget. More than likely you don't want to spend a huge amount on a bedroom they'll probably want to change in a few months. Sit down and figure out how much you can realistically spend. The great thing is that you can find decorations, bedding, and children's bedroom furniture for a reasonable price. You really don't have to go broke decorating your kids' rooms.
 
Consider Gender for Style
 
When choosing the right styles for children's bedrooms, it's definitely a good idea to consider their gender. Most boys aren't going to want any type of décor that even remotely looks feminine. Girls usually tend to go towards themes with pinks and purples while many boys want something more "manly." When you are choosing a style and all the bedroom decorations that go along with it, you can either go with styles that are gender specific or consider going with a neutral style.
 
Choosing Furniture and Accessories
 
Of course picking out the furniture and accessories to go with the style you decide on can be a challenge as well. When you are choosing children's bedroom furniture you definitely want to remember that this furniture will be used by children. Kids are hard on furniture so you'll want to go with furniture that will be durable, although you'll also want it to look great with the style of the bedroom too.
 
It's also a good idea to consider whether the bedroom is used by one child or two. If you have two kids sharing a room, then the furniture you choose will need to reflect that. You may need bunk beds, a larger dresser or chest of drawers for their clothes, and other pieces of furniture that are large enough to be shared.
 
Let Your Child Help Make the Choice
 
Allowing your child to help you make the choice on kids bedroom décor is an excellent idea. This way you get their input and they'll feel more involved in the entire process. While you'll want to set some limits and guidelines, they'll love that they get to help pick out the theme, furniture, and accessories for the bedroom. If you have a particular budget, let them know what you can spend and make sure they know they have to stick within the budget for what they want. This is a great way that you and your child can enjoy some time together and have some fun picking out the theme for their room.
 
Shopping Online - A Great Option!
 
Whether you are looking for a theme or you are ready to start making purchases of items like children's bedroom furniture, shopping online is a great option. Online you can find many great ideas that you may want to use for your kids bedroom décor. You'll also find some of the best prices on the web as well, definitely making it a great place to shop for all your kids bedroom needs.
 
There are many different great cool themes out there to choose from today. Just to name a few there are Princess themes, NASCAR themes, sports related themes, butterfly themes, Disney themes, and so many more. With these helpful tips, picking out a cool theme should be much easier for you today. Remember, you don't have to spend a lot of money to get great children's bedroom furniture, bedding, and accessories to make your kids' bedroom a great place to hang out.


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Thursday, December 1, 2011

18 Inch Doll Triple Bunk Bed - Furniture Made to Fit American Girl or Other 18" Dolls

!±8± 18 Inch Doll Triple Bunk Bed - Furniture Made to Fit American Girl or Other 18" Dolls


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Is your doll planning on a huge sleep-over party? Or do you just need more beds? These Triple Bunk Beds are the perfect solution.

These beds come apart and can be set side by side as 3 separate beds. There is even a large drawer under the bottom bed that could be used as a trundle for an extra guest! Beds include top and bottom blanket for each, plus a pillow and storage pocket.

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Saturday, November 19, 2011

The Need to Belong

!±8± The Need to Belong

Every child born into this world, needs the assurance that he belongs to a family who wants and loves him or her. It is believed that during the first year of our lives the need to belong is very dominant. God has intended that parents play the role of providing this need to belong and to feel loved. If for whatever reason our parents failed to minister to the need to belong, as we become adults, certain social and behavioral problems may start to manifest in our lives. This deprivation may cause some "cracks" to start showing in the very foundation of our existence.

A child whose basic need to belong has not been properly met will more often than not develop anxiety and sometimes even an inability to trust - even God.

Unfortunately many children who have been brought up in orphanages have a problem with trust. Those who have lived in an orphanage past the age of five years old are particularly prone to this problem. It is not hard to see why it is preferred for children to be adopted when they are as young as possible, so that early on in their lives they start to experience the kind of love and acceptance that eventually fosters a sense of belonging. Many foster parents of older children say that it is an uphill battle getting their kids to trust that they took them into their homes because they truly loved them. The kids are unnecessarily suspicious of acts of kindness and in some cases are unconsciously waiting for the period of stay to be over and they are taken back to the orphanage. That is particularly true of kids who have been in several homes.

I still remember counseling Felicity (not her real name), a Christian young girl who had been adopted by a missionary family in a West African country where we lived at the time. Although she had the sweetest and most patient parents that I had ever met, Felicity struggled with a hot temper and was extremely moody. Whereas most kids who came to see me as the school counselor had been recommended to me either by their parents or by a teacher, Felicity came to see me of her own accord. " I have been trying to find out who my biological mum is." This statement surprised me at the time because her foster parents were everything you would imagine that a child would want in a parent. When I asked her why she was trying to connect with her biological mother, she told me that she wanted to know the whole reason why her mother gave her away. " I talked to mum about this and she told me that she would help me locate her, if it was important to me." "Is it important to you?" I asked her. Felicity looked away angrily and told me that if her mother had tried hard enough she would have been able to keep her.

Apparently Felicity's mother had had another child, also out of wedlock, before she became pregnant with Felicity. She had kept the older child but gave up the baby for adoption. "How come she did not give up my older sister for adoption?" Of course I had no answer for that and I did not want to speculate. "What reason has your mum given you?" "She keeps saying that my biological mother loved me and knew that she could not be able to give me the life that I deserved and so it was for my good that she gave me up. She says that the adoption agency had told her that the biological mother of the child had emphasized that she wanted her baby adopted by a good Christian family." "How far has your mother gone with locating your biological mum?" I asked Felicity, wondering why it was so important to her to connect with someone that she had never seen or had a relationship with. "Mum is in touch with the agency from which I was adopted and they are looking at the records. They said they will get back to us." "That is wonderful, I hope that you will get to know you biological mum." Although I said that to Felicity, I knew that finally getting to know her mum and sister could be either wonderful or disappointing.

Relationships are cultivated and the foundations are built upon, stone upon stone. What I did not fully realize at the time was that Felicity's questions of "Who am I and what am I worth?" had not yet been answered for her. She still did not feel a sense of belonging. I am sure that this would have devastated her wonderful foster parents if they knew.

Felicity burst into my office two weeks later. She was smiling from ear to ear and she was carrying a letter in her hands. " I got a letter from my biological mum and she has sent me pictures of her and my sister!!" She gave me the letter to read and my original fears were allayed. I saw a picture of a beautiful African American woman with another equally beautiful young lady sitting next to her. In the letter Felicity's biological mother called her "honey" and "darling" and told her how happy she was to be in touch with her "little girl" again. Tears came to my eyes as she told Felicity how she would never have given her away if she had any other option. She said she was glad that she had parents that were wonderful. I took the risk and asked Felicity, "So would you like to live with your biological mother?" "No! I love my mum. I want to stay with her." I do not know if Felicity eventually met her mum but this story emphasizes all the more, how strong the need to belong is!

Whenever the Bible gives an account of a person, we are told either their father's name, their mother's name or where they came from. When we meet Jeremiah the prophet in the Book of Jeremiah we are told that he is the son of Hilkiah, one of the priests at Anathoth in the territory of Benjamin. However what gives Jeremiah as sense of being loved, wanted and planned for is when God tells him, "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart: I appointed you as a prophet to the nations" - Jeremiah 1:5. Talk about having a sense of belonging!

I listened to a pastor at a church recently who shared with the congregation how his mother told him that she never really wanted him. He was an accident, and she was very disappointed when she got pregnant with him, although she was a married woman and had two other kids. She had thought that she was through giving birth when he came along!

He became a rebellious child and had many behavioral problems, which eventually landed him in jail at the age of sixteen. His testimony is that when he eventually understood how much God loved him and how much he was not an accident in God's plans, his life turned around. God had planned all along that he be born and pastor a church of over five thousand people!

At the end of the day when all is said and done, there is nobody on this earth who will ever grow up with a one hundred percent feeling of belonging, and of being loved and accepted. That is because we do not live in a perfect world, and there is no perfect parent that has been born yet. Because parents have not been brought up in perfect families, they themselves cannot be perfect parents. So everybody is brought up with a certain degree of deprivation - some more than others.

The only person that can cause a human being to feel one hundred per cent loved and accepted is Jesus Christ who died for us on the Cross of Calvary out of the Father's love for us. "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends" - John 15:13. The only perfect love that a parent can give a child is to let God love their child through them. As God fills us with His love, only then can we love our child in a way that gives them a sense of belonging. For those people who were brought up in an environment where they did not feel like they belonged, God is able to transform their lives through a personal knowledge of His Son Jesus Christ. "For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" - John 3:16.


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Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Family Fun Fitness Ideas

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Who says staying fit has to be boring. By making family fun fitness a regular event, you will enjoy some great time with your family plus everyone stays fit all at the same time.

A moderate exercise regimen that includes some of the activities below can cut your risk of heart disease, diabetes, stroke, and breast cancer. Here are five family fun fitness activities that will get your heart pumping and your family having a blast:

Jump rope: This is one of the most perfect family fun fitness activities around. Jumping rope is fun, easy to learn, and it won't cost your family a lot of money. Plus you can jump rope just about anywhere. All you need are a few jump ropes and you are ready to start jumping. There are different types of ropes designed for different purposes. Jumprope.com does a good job of explaining the different types of ropes and the advantages and disadvantages of each rope type. To add some fun variety to your family's jump roping activity, consider ordering a wall chart or instructional book that explains single rope basics, partner activities, long ropes skills, and double dutch.

25 Yard Soccer: Traditional soccer fields range from 100-130 yards. For families, such a field is not very intimate, nor forgiving. By shrinking the playing field considerable, your entire family can enjoy this family fun fitness activity. If you have a big back yard free of obstructions, you're set. Otherwise, you'll want to take this activity to your local park. All you need for this activity are four plastic cones and a soccer ball. You can make your playing field as small or large as you want. About 25 yards is recommended. Position the goals with your cones, divide into teams, and start playing. Fun Twist: Make this family fun activity an afternoon event complete with a picnic lunch.

Tag in the Park: Put your running shoes on. It's time to burn some calories the fun way. The ultimate place for this family fun fitness activity is at a community park that has lots of playground equipment. The more things you can run around and climb up and over the better. Parallel bars, overhead climbing structures, slides, large blocks, climbing ropes all make this activity totally fun. So first and foremost, pick a park that has good equipment. There are a great many games of "tag" that are familiar to boys and girls. One of the common games is "last tag," which simply means that a person tags another and makes him "it" before leaving the party on his way home. The principal rule of last tag is that there is "no tagging back." The person who is "it" must not attempt to tag the one who tagged him, but must run after someone else. It is a point of honor with a person not to be left with "last tag" against him, but he must try to run someone else down, when he is then immune and can watch the game in safety.

Walkabouts: Walking with your family is a simple, no-cost way to burn fat. Walking is a family fun fitness activity where you can have some good visit time with your family plus walking can be done at various paces to meet the needs of each family member. To make it fun each time you walk, have several walking locales and rotate your walking routes.

In-line Skating: Instead of running which can be bad on the joints, try skating, a better alternative. This family fun fitness activity is considered an aerobic fitness sport by the American Heart Association for good reason. About 350 calories can be burned when skating at 6 mph and when you skate at about 10 mph, you can burn almost 600 calories.


Family Fun Fitness Ideas

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